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DH and why he only lies about the ex-wife.....???

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Am I the only frustrated new wife on this topic..? It's really weird. SDs (5 & 10) live with us yet DH continues to tell lies about the ex. I completely trust him that he doesn't want her back or anything but it doesn't make sense to me!! Most recent lie was that he agreed to let Biomom take them on a 2 week trip and told me their aunt was going as well (aunt is caring and keeps them more than Biomom)..Well, kids tell me last night aunt isn't going on the trip.

Yours, mine and ours...whether to have a BABY...

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Ok, I've been married for close to 2 years. We went through a lot of church counseling prior to the marriage but of course nothing can prepare you for a "blended step-family"... The biomom went psycho, in & out of court... I have 1 daughter (13) and two Stepdaughters (10&5) that live with us.

Help w/crazy BM & abuse (new to site-I'm BM, SM & newlywed never married before!)

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I am new to this site and it is wonderful! I am both a Biomom and Stepmom. My story is similar to many on here yet a little different...I married a wonderful man about a year ago. I have a BD who is 13(no ex to deal with, no custody exchanges). My DH has 2 BD's (5 & 9) and has primary custody so SDs primarily live w/us. Yes - I am a Newlywed (never married before), Stepmom and Biomom and had to get used to living with DH, SDs and blending in BD. Hard work!

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