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Submitted by singledadsgf89 on Mon, 11/29/2021 - 10:36am

Question. 
 

If I buy a gift for my boyfriend that is personalized of our bio child, do I have to get him one with his daughter too? I know I don't HAVE to do anything. But is it the right thing to do? Do you think he could possibly be hurt if I get him gifts from the child we share but not from his daughter?

One of the gifts I want to get him are socks with our baby's face on it. I had previously gotten him a car freshener with his son's face on it and he had been saying he wanted one of his daughter too which made me feel kind of guilty. 

Update: if he gets full custody, I'm leaving.

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Submitted by singledadsgf89 on Tue, 08/27/2019 - 12:22pm

So my boyfriend and I had the conversation where I told him full custody is too much for me.  He asked if I would leave and I said yes.  This ended with him shutting down for about 2 days and me trying my best to maintain some weird kind of friendship while I continue to look for new houses.   I also completely stopped engaging in any conversations with him about his custody battle for the purpose of SANITY.

If he gets full custody, I'm leaving

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Submitted by singledadsgf89 on Thu, 08/22/2019 - 12:47pm

When I first met my boyfriend, he got his 6-year old kid every other week (W after school to M morning).  This was a big deal for me already because I had not previously dated a man with kids in the past.  But I adapted and it was fine.  The kid is great, I enjoy her, and I have been playing an active role in her life.  Prior to becoming involved with him, I asked him what the arrangement and if he and BM were drama-free.  He gave me the entire historical breakdown (he and mom were never together.  there was drama early on, but for the past 5 years of the kid's life, ZERO issues and co-pare