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They're Back!!!!

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Well, the Little Darlings have been here less than 24 hours and I already have a pit in my stomach.

I will give props to DH as yesterday he did speak to them about the garbage can incident where those unwrapped feminine hygiene products were found stinking up the bathroom. The 17 year old said, "oh, I just forgot". I can guarantee if it had anything to do with her stupid ass video game she would not have forgotten.

Thought I was home free this week....

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Thought I was home free this week since the step kids went with us. But even in their absence they know how to irritate me. I went into the bathroom that they use yesterday and I smelled a foul odor. Looking into the trash can, of course I found again used, unwrapped, feminine hygeine napkins. It is such a gross and foul odor. I nearly lost it!

My Final Rant for a few days.....I Promise

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Well, I have a few things to vent aout this morning. So, he got her the damn key. It was almost like she was taunting me with it. They had gotten home hours before I did yesterday and but she chose to come out with her key after I was home.  She said, "Oh Daddy, I meed to test my key".  My heart sunk because my DH hadn't even told me he really did get hurt for her. So I didn't say anything as he was going over there lock the door routine with her. So, when we went to bed, I asked him if he had the conversation with her to lay the grpund rules as to who was allowed in the house.

Key to the House?!?

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Okay friends, I need some help! I need to know if I'm overreacting or if what I'm requesting is not out of the ordinary. So, as some of you may know, two of my step kids have been with us this past weekend. Their mom and sibling are coming home tomorrow from their out-of-town excursion. Apparently the ex will be picking the kids up while DH and I are at work. So up until now, his kids did not have a key to our house. So this morning DH asks me if we have an extra key to the house? I said not that I'm aware of why?

It Is A Mixed Bag

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So.......2 of the 3 skids arrived this afternoon while I was at work.  They got here at 2:30pm.  I get a text at work frpm DH at 3pm that he is taking a nap.  Really?  Yoir kids have not been here for 2 weeks then 1/2 hoir in you are napping?  The pit in my stomach forms.  

Cautious in My Optimism

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What a joyous couple days this has been.  So, I have been loving my new job.  And, unlike last week, DH seems interested and happy for me so far this week.  In fact, both Monday and Tuesday night I came home to dinner on the table.  Hell, last night he even made his own lunch for today.  I did tell him that I appreciated his help immensely.  I am cautiously optmistic that this will remain, although I certainly do not expect him to make dinner every night, etc. as he works a hard job too!  I am just so very grateful for his showing me that he is a little bit more engaged.

Raining on My Parade

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So, I started my job and I love it so far!!!! But, it did not start without a hitch.  My oldest dog had started coughing Wednesday morning and it was pretty bad by Wednesday night.  My first day of work was Thursday but I didn't have to be there until 11am.  So, I took the dog to the vet at 7am hoping to do a walk-in.  But nope, no vet available until 9am.  So, I told DH he needed to take him because he needs to to be able to go to daycare while I am working.  He said ok.

I GOT A JOB!!!!!

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Oh my heavens!  I am shouting it from the rooftops!!!! I GOT A JOB!  I start tomorrow!  It is temporary for 30 days but can go to permanent if both myself and the employer agree it is a good fit.  It is right in my wheelhouse from what I used to do.  I could not be more excited, especially since DH and I had it out the other night.  He is adamant that he is taking a OT job next weekend so that he will be working that Friday night and all weekend WHILE TWO OF HIS KIDS ARE HERE! 

Guess I Should Be Happy

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Well, turns out the step kids did not pack for Friday so my DH arranged to pick them up Saturday (yesterday morning).  Yeah for me!!!!!  For kids who miss their daddy oh so much, it took them until almost 11am to text him and let him know thye were ready to be picked up.  Ok, first issue from yesterday.  Who is the adult here? I woild have told them, I will be there at x time, be ready when I get there.  There is absolutely no accountability.

I Think My Head Might Explode

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Okay, obviously I'm having a very bad day. Second blog entry in less than 24 hours. In my last entry I noted that my DH was going to be working overtime for the next few weeks. Well, just a short bit ago I get a text from him saying that he's not working tomorrow so he is going to pick up his kids tonight after all. A pit formed in my stomach immediately.

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