We were talking about the kids this morning, and SO says to me that I can't get mad at his daughter anymore.
He was talking about his daughter and I just sort of like blew him off and changed the subject to us.. I don't talk about his kids and stopped including them in anything. He was talking about having a photo of us and his daughter in a frame, and I said what would be nice is a photo of just him and me. To be honest I think it offended him.
I decided for Christmas I'd be doing a scrapbook for my partner. Of all our happiest memories, which funnily enough, doesn't include any of his kids. I'm deliberately leaving them out any and all photos I'm putting into the scrapbook