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sharkette92's picture

He was talking about his daughter and I just sort of like blew him off and changed the subject to us.. I don't talk about his kids and stopped including them in anything. He was talking about having a photo of us and his daughter in a frame, and I said what would be nice is a photo of just him and me. To be honest I think it offended him. 

 

Everytime he'd talk about his kids, I obviously listen and etc. And the one day he took a cheap shot at me and said he's tired of people (me) who don't have kids trying to tell him how to raise his kids. As all his mates and family have their own kids, his statement was aimed at me. So I turned around and said I'm not in this relationship for his kids. Im here for him and the bub we're about to have. I could care less about his kids because they're rude, manipulative, badly mannered, selfish and just a pain in the arse and I refuse to do anything for them anymore

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shamds's picture

My ils call them out on it constantly.

i wouldn’t want to take a pic of hubby and his kids to have in a frame because that implies we operate and function as a family unit which is so far from the truth...

Jcksjj's picture

A picture of you and him and his daughter when you dont have any other kids (yet) just seems weird to me. 

I'd guess hes in the same thought process as my DH was that you're just going to smoothly take over where his ex left off, like a direct replacement. It's a fantasy that will never happen.