Last night hubby told me he lost it with his kids with ex few weeks ago. He told off ss21.5 how he lacked maturity for someone in university and he needed to do better.
So earlier this year my dad was meant to fly to hubbys country where i was living but was rushed to hospital for emergency surgery (he’s perfectly recovered and fit to fly). Hubby originally bought a ticket for my dad to spend time with us every year and we managed to reschedule the flight because of the emergency surgery.
It turns out there will be 2 of hubbys nephews getting married. The day after i arrive , one nephew is having a wedding reception, following weekend another nephew is getting married and having his wedding reception.
over a year.
hubby flew over a few days ago as he is working overseas. We have a few of his nephews getting married next month and after hubby flies home next weekend, i will be flying over 2 weeks later.
hubby left about 30mins ago to the airport back to his country for work. I was busy doing laundry and avoiding being around him as i have nothing to from yesterday.
our toddlers both cried hysterically seeing their dad go, i’m sure if they even knew and understood that daddy said it was a mistake to have them and marry me, they wouldn’t be crying seeing him fly back... they’d more than likely want nothing to do with him.
I left the house today with our toddlers for a few hours, to do some errands and baby supplies etc. Hubby acts so responsible messaging me about 2 hours in asking where i went because its his duty as husband to care for me and our security.
i called him a hypocrite and if he really cared abour our safety, security and happiness, for starters he would have fed the toddlers 2 nights ago when they were under his watch, he would have stepped up a long time ago and he would never allow us to be trampled over by skids and exwife
BeHubby took a few weeks off work to visit us as our daughter gets prepped to go to kindergarten soon and i attempt to finish my degree in my country, something he agreed upon years and months ago.
we’re mid semester now so loads of assignments and exams on the same week/weekend and hubby knows i am extremely busy this week and weekend and he flies back for work overseas this weekend.
When she is a pas aggressor too.
just curios for those who have dealt with a neglectful bio mum, in our case she palmed off s14 to sd23.5 to care for, for the past 3 years. She had forcibly taken the 2 girls and cut off contact with hubby 3 years prior to palming off the youngest.
She has been taking the child support payments and supposedly gives some money to sd23.5 to care for sd14.
Hi all, my previous post several days ago about he double standards with hubby going above and beyond for his 3 kids with exwife to make life super easy but the same doesn’t apply for me.
Well after my kids being sick and hopefully on the mend, i started focussing on ensuring they get better and catch up with my uni studies as i’m basically a week behind.
hubby telling me he wasn’t gonna address skid issues, the double standards and i had to suck it up smile happy and tolerate and accept it just because hubby had given up.
I recently moved back to my country in preparation for my daughter starting kindergarten and to finish my degree so we’ve been 3 weeks in my country with a 2 & 3.5 yr old. It was impossible to continue my studies back where my hubby is from as no internet signal as we’re in a blackspot.
Hubby and me agreed on sending our kids together to school in my country as there is a higher level of education there.
So hubby told me he has a department holiday celebration for their staff and families and we could stay in a hotel near his work for convenience and he’s invite his daughters.
My response to this was i will be busy as i have just finished university exams, i have 3 weeks to pack as me and our 2 toddlers are moving back to my country as I’m finishing my degree and my daughter will start school there in a few months so we need to be settled. Unfortunately where we live the internet has been problematic so this has been the decision we both came and agreed to.