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I would like some opinion on this

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My DH is thinking about getting a job overseas. I said okay whatever you want to do to make more money for us. But I told him think about it because you won't see your son or us while your over there. DH told me when its my time to have my SS4 to go pick him up but I said why do that if your not even here for SS4 to see you.I don't want my SS4 here while you are not, he visits you not me.

The BM drama

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Yesterday my SS4 went back to BM but my DH had to work. So my DH ask if I could drop him off so DH would not be late for work. But that psycho bitch has it in the court order that I can not be the competent adult unless the parties agree. So when DH told that BM got pissed off and called the cops. So then DH told BM that his sister will take him back. My DH told that to the cops on the phone, she just makes a big deal over something so small. She has a very much hatred over me so she does whatever she can to make our lives a living hell.

Need help on argreeing with parenting the kids

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A little background I have two boys from a previous marriage and my DH has one son from a previous relationship and we have one DD together. I been with my DH for 4yrs but married to him for 2 months but we still defend our own kids when the started fighting. DH blames my boys for always picking on his spoiled brat. Oh sorry my boys are 10.9;SS is 4and DD 5 months. but not all the time its my boys fault and its his son that starts it and he does not believe that his son started it.

DH 's summer time with BS4

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So its going into the first week that we have SS4 and BM calls today and asked if she could get him for a couple of hrs to take him to see the movie Cars 2. Of course DH says yes and I'm like why its your time with your son and its your weekend off work so you can spend time with him. I think BM can wait till he goes back to see the movie but since it comes out this Friday she wants to take him on DH's visitation summer time with him, and no BM is not paying for the movie either her BF is paying for them to go.

Summer time with SS4

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Yesterday was the first day of having SS4 for the summer only two weeks.We pick him up late evening around 830 instead of at 6pm, me and my DH had a mini date. When we got home it was around 930 got my other kids from my sister in law we live in the same apartment complex. Then at 10pm my SS4 said he was hungry I was like he should of had dinner already did she feed him or not so i got him something to eat anyways.

Having trouble with my parents getting into our buisness

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My parents told my DH that they don't see him being a dad to his stepsons (soon to be his adoptive sons). Here is the story my dad usually take my BS10,9 to Lowe's for the build and grow but two weekends ago my DH and I went with my BS10,9 DD5mos and SS4 then the next weekend came for the build and grow I took my BS10,9 DD5MOS and DH stayed home asleep (he works nights) but on Friday my DH was off just stayed up all night and slept in. My mom was pissed because she sees it as he goes when we have SS4 and does not go when we don't have him.

Stepson affarid to show affection towards us DH and me (SM) in front of BM

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Is this normal for my SS4 to do this? I'm a new SM and a BM of three kids been with DH for three yrs and married to him for a month.SS can show loving affection to us when DH gets him every other weekend. We went to SS pre-k graduation and we went to his classroom to see him and congratulate him, BM and her BF were there but his dad wanted to give him a hug he shyed away and hid behind BM. It was like he would get in trouble if show he was happy to see us or to his dad he shyed away from him(DH) also. SS didn't want to acknowledge me(SM) and the same thing when i said hi.

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