I’ve exchanged a lack of peace, for loneliness. The loneliness isn’t unbearable, and nothing is worth going back to someone’s behavior making me miserable every day, but it does get to me. I miss being held. I miss my H’s sense of humor. I don’t miss the excuses for why I shouldn’t have a problem with bad behaviors, or unrealistic expectations of maternal feelings for a child I didn't raise, will never trust, and don't share values with.

There's so many different types out there, I don't know where to begin. Can anyone recommend a specific brand? Is it as painful as the youtube videos say?

This is my take on this version of The Bachelor. I normally would never watch something like this, but it was on at the gym Dontcallmmom previously mentioned the guy this time around was a single dad so I was slightly curious about this potential train wreck.

What he said: Whenever I have to travel, the first thing I think of is my daughter.

What I heard: When I’m with my daughter, I fixate on her. When I’m not with my daughter, I fixate on her. Do not expect this to change once I have a partner. I will expect you to do the same.

As a woman, there are monthly activities that I perform in the bathroom that have the potential to, if I were an inconsiderate person become quite messy and horrific, maybe even resembling a crime scene. Yet, there is NEVER a trace of anything I do left in the bathroom once I’ve left.

So can someone please explain to me why males leave so much evidence of every activity they perform in the bathroom??? I could put together a step by step mind movie of exactly every disgusting thing that took place in that bathroom by the previous user.