If you love someone, set them free. If they reconcile with BM they weren't really yours to begin with. . .
Hello to all you exceptionally strong-willed, embattled step-talkers on this miserable rainy day. That is the question today. You remember the old saying, "If you love something set it free. If it returns to you it's yours. If it doesn't it was never yours to begin with." Well, I thought I would modify that a bit to fit some of our circumstances. If you let your dh/so/bf go would they reconcile with BM? I already know the answer to this for me personally...Yes. He would. He already did and year after they divorced and then lied about it when we met. So granted I have trust issues. But I think that if dh were to part ways (and inevitably we will) he would return to horseface bitch devil cunt. The heavens would open, champagne would rain down from the skies, dogs and cats would live together, basically mass hysteria would ensue. But honestly, BM is so totally ingrained in DH's life that I know that's the way the rock would roll. So tell me, do you think BM would weasel her way back into your dh/so/bf's life if you stepped aside?