OT: Who thinks their dh/so/bf needs to grow a pair? Show of hands please. . .
I've been reading some of the posts today and it just got me to thinking about guts and the lack there of in many of our dh/so/bfs. The things that the skids and bms get away with is in direct proportion to their inability to grown some balls and "man up". Perhaps I am simply cut from a different cloth, but I lack the restraint to repeatedly allow someone to manipulate and cut me up. But the men-folk differ somehow. They seem to have a sea of tolerence when it comes to being treated that way. I always believe that people will continue to treat you as they see fit until You put a stop to it. So what has become the standard remains, because dh/so/bfs have done nothing to remedy the situaiton. And how did they come to accept this as the norm? So what I'm asking is for some anticdotal proof. If your dh is a stand-up guy, let me know. If not, bitch it out here, ladies.