We have been paying way too much cs.. i think its about time we get a lawyer and take gold digger bm to court!!! i have been doing some research since i am currently not working and I think if we get a lawyer (we did not have one when the judge ordered that rediculous amount)and fight for more time we might be able to lower atleast to half of what we pay right now!!!

I am legally married but I have not changed my last name. I dont really think it makes a difference, and to be honest I am really lazy to go through the process lol. Like Ive mentioned before DH has my name tattoed on him so yesterday he said to me " babe if ur not going to tattoo my name on u then can u atleast change ur last name? I feel like you dont have anything of me". I said "well what about the kids? what more do u need?" lol.

Thank God since I've been with my DH I have never had the problem of the X trying to get back with her man but I still dont like her!!! She swears its not about the money but yet she trys to squeeze all my DH money and to top it off she never takes their daughter anywere because she claims to have no money even though she just bought a house :jawdrop: and her and the BF make very good money and not to mention that my DH gives her almost a grand a month for CS!!! :sick:

But I know people who do get a long with the BM... How in the hell can they do that with out beeing fake???

My DH and I have been going through some rough time lately and since he has my name tattooed on him he now wants me to tattoo his name on me (he has other tattoos I dont have any)I dont think I mind doing it, I just dont want to do it for the wrong reasons... if he wants us to be together their has to be trust (which Ive never done anything to loose his trust in me) a tattoo wont do anything...