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Submitted by peace28 on Sun, 03/20/2011 - 1:08am

So, my step son decided he would literally start a fight with my husband because he was angry with him. He and my husband got into a fight and my step son put two whole in the wall of my apartment. This is the mild version of the story. (Some already know it)After my husband and I sat down and had a long discussion with about his behavior and his disrespect. During the conversation I said to my husband and step son, who is 16, that he had to work off the wholes in the wall. But, over the last few days my husband has not preferred any of my suggestions.

Just Needing To "Vent/UPDATE

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Submitted by peace28 on Fri, 03/04/2011 - 8:32pm

So, my SS decides he is going to threaten my husband (in anger) and says (with his fist in my husbands face) "OoooH I want to fight you so bad! Needless to say, they get into a physical fight. I thought my husband was really going to hurt the boy. Nonetheless, now I have two wholes in my wall put there by my SS! I told him that he has to work to pay for repairing the wholes. Then I find out he doesn't have a job, so I was thinking a whole day or chores or community service, but he is 16.

I Am Ready For My Ste p-children To Go Home

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Submitted by peace28 on Tue, 12/21/2010 - 12:09am

So, I am sitting here frustrated at 12:04 a.m. because of the behavior of my step kids, especially the oldest one who is 17. My husband frustrates me more because he wants me to be the bad guy. I have to do all the correcting while he kisses up to his children and when I refuse, because it is something he should do, he gets upset.

Surprise, Surprise!

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Submitted by peace28 on Fri, 07/30/2010 - 6:38pm

I am recently married to a nice guy who had three children by his first wife. I knew him for two years before we married and had interaction with his children. I thought all was going to be wonderful and we would be this big happy family. I believed no difference would be made between my child (which is also his) and his first three children. I thought his children (ages 7, 15, and 17) would acknowledge (in the least) as their stepmother, but I was terribly wrong. Being a stepmother has been quite painful and stressful on my marriage.