Bm suddenly wigging... Advice asap please :(
When Dh and Bm went to court it was established that Dh would get 3 wks in the summer. We're on our first week of that visitation and Bm text dh demanding to talk to Ss. I feel like she did this to try to see if Dh was off work this week with Ss-Dh is not off. Ss is with my brother who is babysitting him right now. My brother is 22. Dh said he's with the babysitter and now Bm is flipping out demanding that Dh bring Ss back to her because he's not physically with Dh and according to her, he's in violation of the CO. The CO does mention first right of refusal but it's worded like this: If either parent is unable to exercise his/her scheduled period of responsibility with the child for more than 24 hrs, he/she shall first contact the other parent to determine if the other parent can take care of the child. Is Dh in violation? She's saying she's going to call the cops. Does she have grounds to call the cops for something like this??? Ss will go back to his moms this weekend and then will return for another week vacation at the beginning of August. At that time we will be off. There is no way Bm expects Dh to take off 3 weeks every summer for this… thoughts?? Dh is kind of freaking out.