Bm strikes again with demands. Are we handling this right?
A while back Bm text dh demanding a change to the time Ss gets dropped off at our home for dhs visitation. Basically what was going on was that her dh had a change in his work schedule and so she was demanding to change drop off from 4pm to 8pm because they operate on 1 vehicle. Dh said no, drama ensued but dh stood firm on his decision and she backed off. Welllll Bm text yesterday demanding the same thing, saying that if she has to wake up at 5am to take her husband to work that it's not in the best interest of Ss because he doesn't wake up for school until 6:30 and that dh needs to work with her blah blah blah. Dh told her he still didn't want to do that and so Bm then proceeded to tell dh, via text of course, that she was changing the drop off time regardless of what he thought and he could take her to court but that no judge would penalize her for changing the time because she shouldn't have to get ss up early to take her husband to work. Mind you, her dhs job is 15 min from their place AND she'd only have to do that on Fridays. What are your thoughts in this? Dh told her that every time ss is late he will file a police report to document what's going on and will not hesitate to file a contempt order. Her tone definitely changed in her response to that in which she basically was saying she's just what's in ss best interest. I don't understand how that's in his best interest though? His best interest is to have consistency in his schedule, right? I also don't understand why her husband can't go home during lunch (she's claims he's working 12 hr schedule so an hour lunch is given no?) and get her while ss is at school so she can have a car. There are other options. I don't understand why she think we need to alter things for her husbands schedule. If dh does have to file contempt do you think a judge would side with her? When we went to court she tried pulling the same crap and the judge said "no, we need to figure out a set time" ughhh I also can't believe after all the shit she pulled with the cops 2 weeks ago that she'd even have the nerve to ask dh to work with her. Wtf. Thought?