Question about Halloween
I have a question about how you guys go about Halloween and really any other holidays. Do you still do all the holiday-ish stuff with them if it's not your year to have them? For example, this year is Bms year for Halloween and I wanted to take my 2bios to the pumpkin patch, they are not in school yet and I'm not working so I wanted to take them during the week because there will be less people but I feel guilty like I'm leaving ss out buuuut at the same time I feel like this is Bms year so she will (or should at least) be doing these things with him. Another example is ss demanded that we wait to carve pumpkins with him even though his mom told him she was carving pumpkins with her. On one hand I feel bad like I'm being the "evil stepmom" but on the other hand I feel like, if it's her year why should my bios be forced to wait until ss is present for us to do things with them... What are your thoughts?