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I am having a hard time dealing with my SD. the problem is she cries about EVERYTHING!! She cries when her dad goes to work, she cries if a commercial comes on during her cartoon, she cries if I want her to go play while I do something.I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY THERE IS A NEED TO CRY OVER STUFF!!! I have NEVER been a cryer even when I was little and to be honest when I hear kids crying about stuff it fries my last nerve REAL fast. Am I the only one who is like this? I dont know how to fix it. I try to not let it get to me but it is nearly impossible. I get SO irritated with crying!

She never ceases to amaze me!

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This morning BM came to drop SD (4) off for the afternoon. I could hear SD crying and BM screaming at her before they even got to my door. I opened the door and BM SCREAMS "Get to your F***ing room now". SD was hysterical and went to her room. I asked BM what happened she said that her boyfriend and her had gotten into a fight on the way over here and when she got out of the car he left. He was supposed to be taking BM to the dentist. She said SD was "being a little brat and freaking out".

Good days

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On sunday BM called saying that SD had been a total nightmare at her house. BM claims that SD was throwing fits constantly. According to BM, SD threw a plate and broke it, pulled BM's hair and hit her, and was screaming and crying for 45 mins throwing toys and other things. Now this is VERY hard for me to believe as I have NEVER seen this type of behavior from my SD and I am the one who watches her all the time.

WEIRD

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This morning my husbands ex called 4 times wanting me to help her find an apartment. She wanted my opinion on the places she found in the paper and wanted to know if I would consider going to look at some places with her. It is just so strange to me that whenever she needs help or even an opinion she calls me. I just make sure im always polite and give her my opinion but there is no way I would go apartment hunting with her its just too weird. She really has no family and not many friends so maybe she just feels like im the person to go to.

SHE IS SUCH A MORON!!!!!

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I watch SD 8:30-6:30 while her mom is at work. So today Biomom had made arrangments for me to watch SD this morning. I got up and waited and waited and waited.Well Biomom NEVER SHOWED UP. She didnt call and didnt answer the phone when I called to ask her if I still needed to watch SD. I am SO annoyed! She has NO common courtesy at all! No wonder people cant stand her and dont want to do things for her.

FRUSTRATED!

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Ok so yesterday Biomom calls and asks if she could take SD today for a few hours. She wanted to spend some time one on one with SD. She was obviously feeling guilty about SD being so upset with all the fighting Biomom and her BF were doing.Biomom originally said SD was lying about the fights but it came out later that they were fighting and Biomom moved out because of it. So my hubby & I agreed to let SD go to Biomoms house for a few hours while I went to the barn. So I called Biomom on my way to the barn. Biomom said she didnt have enough gas to meet me somewhere to pick SD up.

Any help appreciated!

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Ok so last night my SD (4 yrs old) seemed very upset and kept getting whiney and sad about weird things. For example we were at the barn and she was helping me with the horses (something she LOVES to do). She went out in the grass to play with our dog and came back into the barn crying and said she thought someone was going to run her over with a car.My truck was the only vehicle there and it was not going anywhere. So when we got back into the truck to go home she started to whine and cry again.