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Melise's picture

Ok so yesterday Biomom calls and asks if she could take SD today for a few hours. She wanted to spend some time one on one with SD. She was obviously feeling guilty about SD being so upset with all the fighting Biomom and her BF were doing.Biomom originally said SD was lying about the fights but it came out later that they were fighting and Biomom moved out because of it. So my hubby & I agreed to let SD go to Biomoms house for a few hours while I went to the barn. So I called Biomom on my way to the barn. Biomom said she didnt have enough gas to meet me somewhere to pick SD up. Well SD was really looking forward to spending some time with her mom just the two of them. So I agreed to take SD to where Biomom was. I dropped her off and picked her up 4 hours later. I asked SD if she had fun. she said "My mom just played the computer and went outside with her friend. I played with Katelyn (SD's little friend). My mom said we were going to spend time just us two but we didnt." It breaks my heart to see this little girl so disappointed and sad because her mother cant put herself out for a few mins and do something with her daughter. People like her should NEVER EVER EVER be allowed to have children. Especially kids that are as sweet and fun as my SD.

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Nymh's picture

I thought when you originally posted about your SD's fears related to her biomom and BF fighting that biomom was lying about it. Children that young and innocent don't know the fear of being around parents who argue and abuse each other unless it really happens. I feel so bad for your poor SD, that is so cruel to request a visit and then spend time with someone else! Children need to feel special when they're around their parents. I can't imagine being around my own child (theoretically - I have no children) if I didn't get to see her all the time and not making her feel like she's all I'm focused on! It will be a rude awakening for biomom in future years when she asks to have a visitation with SD and SD says NO!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*