Disney MIL causes Drama with BM1(long rant)
So it turns out that Disney MIL (Gma to the skids -- DH mom who he does not get along with) is making a will. It also turns out DMIL has had dementia for quite awhile(amongst other obvious but undiagnosed mental/ personality disorders).
In the past few months DH (An only child)has had poa and tried to make arrangements for her to be taken care of by his aunt( we also did a lot of other things for MIL while she was gone and made many financial decisions on her behalf according to the Power of Attornry held by DH). DMIL could not stand being without her friends and hopped a bus then disappeared! A month ago she went with some ppl we have never heard of and rescinded the POA.
A few days ago DH gets a text from BM1.
"Who the heck is M? I just got a phonecall from M saying she is DMIL. daughter and she needs my Social Security Number!" She then went on a text rant about SS#s and lawyers. And how she will NEVER give out info to a stranger etc.
DH explained that M was an acquaintance of DMIL from 20ys ago(the child of the man she was dating at the time for about 4 months).
When Dh asked for explanation from DMIL. he was told that M would be inheriting everything and that everybody knows that DH stole from his mother(DMIL)- referring to all the financial decisions DH made under the financial poa she rescinded. DMIL is also in a facility who takes care of old people getting paid by the supposed inheritance.
DH and I went to visit and she was accusing DH of all sorts of things. I tried to convince her that M will be stealing her grandkids money and that she needs to leave the money in the family. She would not budge. She totally believes M will do the right thing(dementia plly).
Well when DH texted BM back BM had changed her tune. M had told Bm that DH and I were " bitching" at his sick mother and that BM needs to give M her Ss# so that BM was put in the will. So BM decided that bc I was talking to DMIL she can give her SS to a complete stranger! (Let me dangle a dollar in the air. Wait if its mine she doesn't need it). In order to prove the $ exists M also gave SS12 $100 to take home to BM. (Plly the only $ he will ever see).
Little does BM know that the kids money cannot be touched by M unless M has the SS#s. Stupid BM!
Poor DH after all that effort to be accused of stealing!