Good afternoon all. Just needing some advice and maybe a little sanity...I am 45 years old with  2 grown children (23 and 21) from a previous marriage, 2 grandchildren (3 and 1), and 3 step-grandchildren (4,3 and 1). My husband as a 5 year old son from a previous relationship. My husband is 10 years younger than me. We have known each other 15 years and we have only been married 1 year, together for 2.  So here is just one of the many issues currently going on in my home. 

Do you ever feel like a yo-yo? I do. The skids get on my nerves and just thinking about them coming over stresses me out. Then something happens – some event or solitary moment – and I get the warm fuzzies for them…for like a hot second. Then *poof* it’s gone again and I’m back to boiling over with annoyance.

In a previous post I wrote about BM needing to call SS9 every single day to “help him study” his spelling because he got ONE bad test grade. She wanted to call him outside her parenting time per the CO, and my SO said NO. She persisted, she manipulated, she begged, she threatened court, etc. My SO still said NO.

So it turns out that Disney MIL (Gma to the skids -- DH mom who he does not get along with) is making a will.  It also turns out DMIL has had dementia for quite awhile(amongst other obvious but undiagnosed mental/ personality disorders).