Skids for Christmas and New Years
So my DH gets home on the 23rd of December around 7pm. Of course we'll be getting monster and princess the next day because he hasn't seen them in a while. He agreed to take them for 8 days and didn't tell me. Now I understand that it's been a while and he wants to see them, but I can't stand the way that he doesn't talk to me about anything!! We were supposed to go out and get a motel room for new years eve (no kids) and spend a nice night in the quiet together and now we'll have skids instead.
Then when I yelled at him for basically never talking to me as his partner he said it's no big deal and that he would find a baby sitter and we could still to a motel room. I don't want to though, the whole point is for relaxing time together, how am I supposed to "relax" when I know we're gonna have to rush out of the motel, rush home, and then hang out with the skids?? *shudder* Doesn't sound like my idea of a good time.
I talk to DH about any and all plans because we're supposed to be a team, but I guess he doesn't feel the same way? I need to talk to him and he gets to do whatever he wants? I've literally had BM show up at my house to drop the skids off on her time, not only did DH not ask me if I would watch them, but he didn't even call to tell me... and if we have plans on BMs weekend, he'll cancel them everytime she wants to get rid of the skids, or put us through the stress and money loss of finding babysitters on HER weekend, sometimes weekdays as well. But he NEVER tells her no, and doesn't talk to me.
We got into a big fight about the motel and him never talking to me. I told him don't call me. I need some serious space to think about this mess I'm in because we had a daughter together, but I don't want to live my life like this..