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Papers served, lets party!

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Submitted by looloo on Sun, 05/09/2021 - 9:20am

So the papers were served on DH and I must say, his reaction was a bit amusing though not really surprising! I had a feeling this was what was on his mind for quite a few days and my daughter just confirmed that DH asked my SIL "would it be ok to date while the divorce is being finalized?" So see he doesnt want to look bad to SIL because he deeply respects him but yet he was DYING to make that match.com profile so he could lure some poor sap into his one man show! Look at me! I am a radio talk show host, I am dynamic!

Latest regarding divorce

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Submitted by looloo on Sat, 05/01/2021 - 6:06am

Yesterday when Husband could not get into the business account he got suspicious. (I had to change the PW last week and forgot to tell him) when he panicked he went to my closet and found my stuff gone. He called last night and I admitted everything.  Of course my excuses seemed trivial to him. He could not believe that I could leave such a WONDERFUL man like him over a few little lies about his "crazy' daughter.  #1 your daughter may be crazy but she is not your basic harmless nut job.

The final mile to divorce

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Submitted by looloo on Tue, 04/27/2021 - 6:24am

Two days left and the nerves are really setting in. As I pack my last bit of necessities, sleeping is now officially difficult! My mind is filled with what do I need, when should I do this or that, the pets, and mostly...are you sure???

My plan is I am openly going to to visit my daughter and he thinks, a week or 2 and I will be back. What he does not know is that he will be served over that 2 week period and I will never come back.

Revelations

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Submitted by looloo on Tue, 04/20/2021 - 8:21pm

I watched a few videos on adult narcissistic children and a couple of them really stood out. One that talked about the narcissitic parents and what they do to maintain control of their kids and the other about narcissistic adult kids. Both were very revealing and validating to what I am going through. My husband does exactly what the first video said. Paying her so that he can keep her hooked on HIS money rather than encouraging her to get a REAL job! He also indulges her in alcohol even though drinking is against his religion!