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Submitted by livizzle on Mon, 06/10/2013 - 8:02am

Our lawyer filed the motion on Friday to have DH's visitation schedule reverted back to what it was prior to BM's bogus RO. We go to court on the 18th.

My guess is that BM received them on Saturday (or will, at the latest, today), and I can only imagine what has gone on in her house since then. The general consensus is that she probably screamed, cried and fell in the floor. Wink On the other hand, who knows what kids have probably heard about me and DH.

SD spilled the beans.

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Submitted by livizzle on Thu, 05/30/2013 - 9:40am

For those that remember, BM's RO against DH states that when there is visitation with skids, it must be supervised by MIL. According to MIL, skids have not been coming to her home recently, except for once when she texted DH at 10:30p to let him know that they were there and were leaving "very early in the morning".

At SS8's baseball game last night, SD10 came over to stand with us (we can't sit down because DH has to be 200ft away from BM @@). Knowing that school is out for the summer, DH asked SD who they were staying with during the day while BM and SF are working.

Does anyone else feel like BM "copies" them?

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Submitted by livizzle on Wed, 05/29/2013 - 10:11am

So, as I was typing the letter 'K' into the search bar, Facebook decides that I'm searching for BM (and no, I wasn't) who has a picture of her Pug as her profile picture. This reminded me of how EVERYTHING DH and I have/have done for ourselves/skids, BM MUST get something "better".

When DH and I were first dating and before BM was a total psychopath, I invited her into our home (doh!) when she came to pick up the skids one afternoon. I have a Pug that BM went nuts over and started talking about how she'd love to have one and blah, blah, blah. A few weeks later, she has TWO.

Here's the plan.

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Submitted by livizzle on Tue, 05/21/2013 - 7:45pm

DH and I met with an attorney this afternoon concerning the non-existant visitation that DH has had since the RO was put in place on March 18. After reviewing the RO and BM's original application for the emergency RO, it was clear to him that this was a "bully move" on BM's part to change the visitation schedule without having to set up an actual custody hearing (because she wouldn't have gotten far) and was done with "thin evidence".

Attorneys and judges and court. Oh my!

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Submitted by livizzle on Mon, 05/20/2013 - 11:56am

For those that remember, BM filed for an RO against DH because she was "in fear for her life". The order stipulates that when DH has visitation, it must be supervised by MIL. BM has since refused to send skids to MIL's on the weekends because they're always "too busy". @@ Except for one baseball game of SS8's a few weeks ago, he has not seen skids for visitation since before Easter.

Dear MIL,

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Submitted by livizzle on Wed, 04/03/2013 - 1:54pm

I have waited a long long long time to let MIL know my feelings. We haven't spoken since 11/2011, and she has held a major role in what is going on right know with BM. I even had DH's blessing when I sent this. Blum 3

MIL,

It's about time.

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Submitted by livizzle on Thu, 03/28/2013 - 4:16pm

So, DH was FINALLY able to get in contact with skids last night.

DH: I have been trying to call you guys all week.
SD10: ...
DH: Did you know that I've been calling, SD?
SD: Yeah.
DH: Why haven't you called me back?
SD: We've been busy.
DH: Oh, that's cool. What have you been doing?
SD: I dunno. Nothing.

@@

What's good for the goose SHOULD be good for the gander.

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Submitted by livizzle on Wed, 03/27/2013 - 3:26pm

Since March 18 (the court date over the RO), DH has been "allowed" to have phone contact with skids ONE time for about three minutes on the 19th. The RO does state that DH is able to talk to them on the phone, and BM agreed to this. All emails, Facebook contact, etc. is prohibited.

Round 2.

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Submitted by livizzle on Tue, 03/19/2013 - 12:18pm

I haven't blogged in a while (over 1.5 years, according to my last post). A lot has gone on during that time, and there wasn't much reason for me to write.

DH and I seperated February 2012, and our divorce was final in November. However, we soon realized that our divorce was caused due to our own stubborness and listening to the advice of family members who we should have never allowed into our personal business. We knew that the divorce was a mistake (seems that not everyone thought so, however). We remarried on March 11 in Las Vegas.

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