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Submitted by Layla1014 on Mon, 01/04/2021 - 7:59pm

Fiance texted bm to tell her he will give her child support and asking when he can see his child. He told me this. I asked"so you got a court order now"?, he replied, "no". I said well no court order means she can still fuck you over and go to court to tell them you have not paid financially. He knows this but says he rather pay 400 now with no court order since we are broke than have her go to court for 835. I was pissed I told him then I will work weekends to have my money. He asked , it is not our money?. I told him no because not even our money is my money it's for your son's mother.

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Wed, 12/30/2020 - 4:00am

Christmas eve comes, she demands ss on christmas eve night my bf asks, ok youll pick him up? Next thing she is saying she needs more from him aka money and tells him his stimulus will be all hers. We had done 50/50 no child support the last month and now she wants money to pay for the car insurance she cannot afford, we are struggling as it is and she will get 825 from his check, I cannot work due to recurrent seizures. I am livid once you fuck with my daughters needs youre dead to me.

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Tue, 11/17/2020 - 10:53pm

During the weekend stepson came her sick, he is better now but fiancee baby and I are sick, baby has milder symptoms but I have persistent chest pain cough, migraines and fever that comes and goes, I never have had chest pain that radiates to my back, I will go get tested for covid in the next 2 days,

BIo and ss treated differently

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Mon, 11/16/2020 - 12:02pm

I have a 9-month-old daughter. I cannot treat his son like my own, because if he were he would've been spanked alongggg time ago.He is 7 never listens, told him not to sit on his dads workout bar while it's hanging on the bench! Does it again, told him not to sit on the balcony rail and he does, he does not grasp anything! He got my baby sick after telling him multiple times to stay away from her.

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Sun, 11/15/2020 - 2:02pm

I agreed to take care of ss Friday and care for him meanwhile his dad gets home, our agreement is picking him up Thursday up at 3 and keep him to Sunday night, and bf will not pay her anything. I might honestly take it back after this weekend. Thursday comes ss gets in the car says he has a scratchy throat, he's always sick in the winter, always! Well, we gave him medicine but told him to stay away from his sister who is 9 mo old, he is 7.

I dont know how to say no

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Sun, 10/04/2020 - 8:29pm

Aand the day has come again. BM tolld fiancee at pick up to keep ss monday- tuesday , no discussion before friday, I have school 4 days, 5 classes and 2 person labs on tuesday and thursday, I told him i could Monday, I do not even take care of my own baby wen I have school my mom does, I wont be able to make him lunch we dont have the same break time Ill need to miss my online lab to make him lunch etc I have classes back to back 9-2.

Step biting and leaving bruises on himself from boredom

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Mon, 09/28/2020 - 2:38pm

Hello, I have a 7-year-old stepson, my previous entries dealt with struggling to care for him, he lives with his mom again due to her wanting child support and me being unable to care for him. Her sister helps her care for him and she has a daughter. They play together. Last night, bio mom told fiancee stepson harmed himself because he was bored. He has toys there and a cousin to play with, he comes over weekends but wants to move back because he wants video games, he wants to go back and forth between parents and that cannot be. I am just wondering if this is normal.

fTM with stepkids ?

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Sun, 12/15/2019 - 2:33pm

22 wand taking care of BFs son full time. I’m nearing the end of my pregnancy. Has anyone else had difficulty caring for stepmoms nearing the end of pregnancy. He’s gotten so picky has done gagging noises at my food which he ate last week with no problem. He is constantly needing attention and looking for it by jumping on the couch or going over chairs that are stacked up for moving, he needs attention all the time and wants me to play with him when I need to clean or do homework, or have migraines I have epilepsy He is 6 years old.

Hate removing life around ss

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Submitted by Layla1014 on Wed, 12/04/2019 - 9:54am

“Stepson”, is 6. Saying this because not married with my bf. I’m about to give birth in a couple of weeks I have a winter baby coming. I do not want to get up every morning take my baby out in the cold to drive him to school every morning. His mom is 21 and doesn’t have her life together , honestly she can but doesn’t care to have it for her son . Calls every 2 to 3 days. And when he’s over there she works a part time job , doesn’t spend much time with him but works at a retail store which I know you can change shifts to accommodate, I see she goes out.