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Ugh, just ugh

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Warthog (crackzilla the boozehound) got kicked out of treatment last week. She has been back in OurTown since Wednesday and I have been wired for sound ever since. And yet, for the past five days, nothing. No word. No email, no phone call, no demeaning text messages. Nothing. It's been silent as a church on Halloween and yet I had this impending sense of doom. Then today, finally word. Not from her, from the facilitator of visits. Apparently Warthog has been trying to manipulate the system to get more visits by claiming SO lied to the facilitator about the agreement SHE created.

Hangover hypocrisy

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So I tied one on last night. SO went to the house and got the rest of his belongings before Warthog goes in this weekend and picks the place clean. My apartment looks like a warzone as we are running out of places to put things. I am not the most orderly person but truth be told, this is too much. There is shit everywhere. I spent three hours rearranging things last night and there still isn't a place for everything. I could feel my blood pressure rising the whole time I was doing it.

DAMNIT ALL TO HELL, SOMEONE GIVE ME A GUN

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I will take care of this issue. For fuck's sake. This woman gets kicked out of treatment for manipulating the system and what does she get? Nothing. She gets to go home. Today. They won't issue a warrant because the county doesn't want to pay for it. They won't send her to another treatment center because no one will take her. She gets to go home, drink, drive and kill someone. She gets to continue to damage her children. She gets to behave like a fucking nutcase on tax payer money and the kicker, she gets to be reinforced by the system. Yay mental health

Update, finally finally something sticks

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So Warthog is being discharged today but not because she is cured. Apparently during her exit interview she decided to state that she is not an alcoholic, has no problem with alcohol, and never drinks. Additionally, we found out that she told other people at treatment how to answer questions to minimize their appearance of a problem. Being a former licensed therapist, she knew and has known how to manipulate the system for years. And the hospital won't take her back because they had too many problems so she is going to another facility to wait for a longer term/lockdown facility.

What am I Job?

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Words texted to me an hour ago by SO. His job is in jeopardy because a new company has come in and taken over IT at the medical facility where he works. The house sold for auction and almost covered the outstanding debt but BM filed a motion preventing him from getting rid of anything in the house and so now an eviction has been filed, of course asking for fees and costs. He is being sued for her car because it was in both their names and MOTY is getting out of treatment a month early with no aftercare plan because she's cured!!!!!

O/T But....

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I have been up since 4:30 this morning with a damn song stuck in my head. SO just asked if I want to meet him at the gym. I told him to pound sand, the only workout I am getting today is in my bicep as I continually lift wine to my lips.

Having said that, if I ever meet Carly Rae Jepsom I am going to cut that bitch.

Update

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So the hearing last week was weird. She denied ever saying she could pay for the house and we found out it was foreclosed upon and auctioned on the 20th so that takes care of that. However, the big issue now is her lawyer is offering his personal storage space for her items so I told SO's attorney, and made a comment to hers as well, that's fine with me but I am not packing another item and not delivering a thing. Her stuff, her damn problem.

Hearing tomorrow

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So, at the last hearing, on Monday, SO agreed to supervised phone calls between Warthog and the kids. A third party will supervise them so she can't claim he is refusing to allow the phone calls or hanging up and preventing the kids from saying things. Also, she can't claim the kids said things they didn't and we will be notified if there are things they said that need to be handled in counseling. I wish the counselor herself was supervising them but Warthog won't allow that.

I could spit nails

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I am that angry.

BM has apparently been granted access to email at the library on "special trips." We got a lovely email this weekend and now, after the hearing this morning, we will be doing lovely supervised phone calls while she continues to be a drain on society.

She insists she is getting the house back, we found out today she is full of shit. The bank has canceled the deed for lease program.

Oh and she has been actively fighting with another resident at the treatment center on facebook. Because of course she has. She's a classy lady.

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