Skids were supposed to come up this weekend. Last Monday DH received a call from SD saying she joined the gulf team and to make up practices that she missed she has to go in this weekend, our visitation weekend. To encourage extracurricular activies DH told Bm that if she has practice and if we can add the days somewhere else we can reschedule. Needless to say the whole story was a lie ... she went to St. Louis with her friends. Her mother is still even not being straight with her as she is driving her down as I type. So now I have a SD in her mothers car lying to her father.

The Skids are up here this weekend and yes again, they are walking around here ignoring me in my own house. Get this, the SD (15) said she didn't want to come up for 6 weeks as planned. So I begged the BF to just let the kids come up every other weekend. This gives the skids the opportunity to be with their friends in the summer. I am still the bad guy!!!! Skids get sent up last tuesday to spend the week with their grandma before comming here yesterday. Oh yes, they were told not to let us know! What we teach our kids to lie now. I know I am rambling, yet again, but damn.

My husband just called me. At the request of his son, he went to see his football game. Flew out, rented a car, got a hotel room all for 1 night stay. He arrives and the ex, who knew he was comming in town, tells him that he can take the kids to lunch and then to the game, oh by the way the all have friends over and then after the game SS wants to spend the night at his friends house who by the way spent the night at his house last night and SD wants to spend the night at her friends. The other SD went out of town for the weekend. I feel so bad for him.

My Sd (14) has turn into someone I do not know. I have found blogs that she has written that prove she is manipulating both families. She has begged us to move back here and then after we see the attorney she said, "I changed my mind." We are being played for a foul. At her last visit she asked to stay at her grandma's house. She kissed us goodbye and went. Then a 180 happened. She called her dad and said she never wants to come back. No reason just! The grandmother encouraged this.