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So Dh informs that his children will be performing at church Easter Sunday and he would like to go. He said there is a 8 o'clock service and a 10 o'clock service. I informed him I am not interested in him (I am not allowed to go because he kids so say). I told him if he wants to see hiskids dance then great but I am not beat for him to stay for the whole service and have Easter service with his exwife and kids..that is bs. yes darling skids are 14 and 20. Then he had the aidacity to tell me I don't want him to see his kids. I am really hurt and feeling attacked by him. Am I wrong?

Cake and eat it too!!!

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DH skids (2 girls) hate me. The one refuses to come over and the other comes and was very disrespectful on her last visit. So I called her on it and now she doesn't want to come back over which is ok with me...but now when he goes to visit skids he wans to take our dd and I am not feeling that at all. They made a choice let them live with it. I think it is ridiculous to think our dd can go somewhere that I am not allowed.

Say nothing

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My dh says sms have to learn to stay out of it and let them handle bm. I am going to stay out of it alright. I wanted to say the problem at least in your case is that you don't.

All over the place

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I don't know where to start. I am dealing with an overbearing ex-wife. A daughter that is almost 21 demanding Daddy and me time and a 14 year old who has no respect. My dh pretends like nothing is going on. I am ok with his kids not liking me but I am not ok with the disrespect. We have a child together otherwise I would have said the heck with all of it. I don't think I realized how difficult this would be. His oldest daughter refuses to be in my company but wants a relationship with her our child.