Sigh...the HRO did not stop the harassment
It's been a week since FIL got the restraining order served to him and already we've gotten another message from the uncle who had no previous involvement.
This one said he heard DH was a piece of work labor day weekend and that he will be funding all efforts to make sure he takes care of his daughter (financially). Ending it with "I hope you have deep pockets!"
Ummm...okay? There's nothing to fund, BM can file for child support for free (I'm assuming that's what he is implying). DH never said he wouldn't pay it either, but obviously he's not going to go file for himself either if BM hasn't.
I'm guessing when FIL talked to the attorney who is defending him for the restraining order, that attorney explained to him that using "dh doesn't see SD" isn't an excuse for showing up at our house and punching DH, and that the only thing that can be done legally is to make him pay child support. But that's on BM to do, not them.