We got my ss5 when he was 2.5 right after we found out we were expecting. We got served to come and do a paternity test the year before and didn't find out the that ss was his till almost a year later when we got papers in the mail for child support. so we went in and talk to the people and see the results. a couple months later while im gone visiting my parents the mother shows up at our door with a crying 2 year old and tells my husband that she cant keep him and she be back to sign custody over to him. bm is a horrible person all around I'm embarrassed my husband was even with her.