SD19 showed up, update!
*DH now wants to take my bios to see SD, as she will not see me. I said no. That rewarding this behavior is not ok... both her rude treatment of me and last nights stunt.*
Last night she showed up unannounced and yelled to let her in. DH shockingly did not let her in because he had seen pictures of her socializing with friends.
Now, I'm sure he will say he only did it for my benefit.
No idea why she didnt text her Dad first before showing up. But I'm thankful shes not in my home right now.
I suspect she will try this again.