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Emotional Vampires

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Submitted by Horsey Mom on Fri, 03/25/2011 - 4:54pm

Almost every one of us has someone in our life whom we wish we could change or whom we wish would change; desiring them to do things differently or to be different. It might be a boss, coworker, colleague, team member, friend, family member or worse, a romantic partner.

What we learn from horses

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Submitted by Horsey Mom on Mon, 02/21/2011 - 9:24am

"Shared emotion carries at least one destructive by-product: the compulsion to aggressively "fix" friends, loved ones, horses, and group situations. This urge arises mostly because people don't realize they're empathic or understand how to process emotion effectively. A person in emotional pain essentially infects others with his unpleasant feelings.

My Husband and His Children

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Submitted by Horsey Mom on Thu, 02/03/2011 - 5:14pm

There isnt a day that passes that I dont think about the situation with my husband and his children. I have lots of thoughts that consume me in what I believe needs to be said to them. I want to contact them but believe it could make things worse. So for now I will keep this blog.

It is not a new situation. My husband and I have known each other for 17 years. And there is a history that isn't all good.