Done with my MIL
Well, I'm officially done with my MIL. Now I just need to truly disengage from her in my thoughts as well.
MIL has always been a thorn in my side. She is mentally unbalanced and has done unspeakable things, yet plays the victim. Back around Easter she freaked out because I took SD7 to an Easter egg hunt, and did not include her. (Fwiw, SO didn't even go...) She put nasty comments on my Facebook pictures of us at the egg hunt, and went through all my previous posts and cancelled her likes. I unfriended her at that point.
Recently, my SO was over there with SD7 and he had a talk with her about boundaries. He threw me under the bus, saying that the reason I didn't come over was because of the offensive things she did and said. She has since completely derailed. She has sent my SO pages and pages of texts about how horrible of a person I am, and controlling, and that SD7 will have a bad life because I am her mother figure. All this while I was giving birth to my son. She has since decided she wants nothing to do with us, including me, SO, SD7, and my infant son. She blames this on me being a horrible person. I'm in shock that she is cutting off SD7, who will not understand why she is doing this.
I cannot stand this woman! I truly hope we are done with her for good. I will never allow her to hurt my son like that.