New to this group and honestly glad I found it. Googled what to do or why I felt this way towards bf kids (ages 3 and 5). After reading some of the other blogs I don't feel like I'm a monster and realize it's a normal feeling. Story time starts..... so my boyfriend and I have dated for 6months he has a 3yr old son and 5yr old daughter, from his previous marriage. I have a 2 boys ages 14 and 13 from my previous marriage. We both knew we had kids before we gave it a shot.