I'm so sick of how defensive my SO is when it comes to SD9'S behavior. I know she needs guidance, structure, positive reinforcement, attention and CONSEQUENCES! He gives her positive reinforcement and a little structure. He is severely lacking in the other parts. I'm so exhausted with his bullcrap! I'm so tired of trying to point out bad behavior that he misses. I'm tired of his permissive parenting style. I'm tired of the BM. I'm just sick of the whole situation.