Hello, I'm a new member, however I have read here before. I am a little over a year into a marriage in which I am very happy. I have no children of my own and am 37. I love my son. He has changed my life for the better and makes me want one of my own. He is 3 1/2 and way to smart, reminds me of myself in that factor. I am all about girl power so it bothers me deeply how his mother behaves. She is 7 years younger than I, she has 3 boys with 3 different men and likes for our tax dollars to take care of her. That's not even the issue. My husband has shared custody of his son.