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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Mon, 02/14/2011 - 9:13pm

Ok, so we talked last night and I am still leaving. This is so frustrating. I have had it with this guy.

He says he does not love me and is tired of pretending. Ok... my queue to move on. We have a target date of April 1. Which happens to be SD11s birthday.... how bittersweet. The little hemorrhoid gets me gone for her birthday. Now she can be the hen in this house.

Good riddance.

The YO YO continues!

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Thu, 02/10/2011 - 1:00pm

Ok, so now we are discussing things like normal people. No yelling, actual discussing.

Yes, the door has been reopened to me staying on. We are not changing plans just yet, but we are at least open now.

I have continued to read Stepmonster and I am beginning to see the light. I think I can look at things differently now. I do know that it is not all on me though.

I am sure I will keep updating...

I am not giving in, I am hoping for change.

Stepmonster - a day to late

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Mon, 02/07/2011 - 11:57am

So I started reading Stepmonster. I really like it.

The day after I bought it and started reading it, BF and I decide I should move out.

Now, I have waited over a week after this decision to blog about it. I wanted to be sure so no one got yanked around (like I do all the time)

I am so relieved to not be responsible any more. He as actually now started to parent his kids!

:jawdrop:

I almost find it sickening. It takes me moving out for him to finally get on his kids about talking to him before making plans.

"Who is your favorite Daddy?"

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Tue, 01/25/2011 - 5:05am

Ok, I got a date!!! Yay!! I did get some time with my BF alone, just us....

It was nice. It reminded me of why I am with him. He is a great guy when he is not doting on SD11.

Last night,at dinner, SD11 started a conversation I felt I needed to comment on. I only stated that I thought it was not nice. I did not really reprimand, just made a comment.

She stated, "The other day when my daddy and I went to the doctor, I asked him who was his favorite. He told me I was. Then I asked him what would you say if SS14 asked you. He said that he would say that SS14 is."

So SD gets more Daddy time.... when do I get some??!!

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Wed, 01/19/2011 - 10:56am

Ok, so 2 weekends ago, SD11 went with BF to work for a 12 hour shift... he wanted to spend time with her. She asked to go. I have asked to stop by for lunch like I used to, he said it was a bad idea because they have gotten into trouble for it. So she can spend all day there??
:?

More of the same...

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Wed, 11/03/2010 - 9:42am

So I confronted BF last night again about how he is so permissive with SD11. He says he will not change it. How he treats his kids is of no concern to me. When I tried to tell him about the disrespect, he said to let him know and he would "take care of it"

Last night I saw SD11 throw a broom handle at SS13. SS13 was not hurt, but she should not be throwing such things at anyone. When I told BF he said, "well what did he do to her to cause that?"

:?

SKids and Chores... and entitlement!

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Mon, 11/01/2010 - 11:50am

Ok so not a good weekend! The SKids decided they did not have to do their chores. BF was working 12 hour night shifts. My 2 were at their Dad's. SKids spent all weekend playing. Every time I asked them to do the chores THEIR dad wanted them to do, they said, "Yeah, I will get to it in a minute." That minute never came.

Now, if I had not had to have clean clothes, I would not have done the laundry (SD11) and if it had not stunk so bad, I would not have taken out the trash(SS13).

BM Mediation.... A Joke!!!

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Mon, 10/25/2010 - 12:21pm

Ok, so BM schedules mediation last month since she is not allowed to see her kids. BF gets word of it the day of! So he gets dressed real quick, calls into work and goes to mediation.

BM does not show up.

Her lawyer gets 1 text message, "going to hospital"

Ok, so now BF has to pay his lawyer and the mediator for this time. BM has her own lawyer to worry about.

BM History 2010

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Submitted by Freedom2005 on Tue, 10/19/2010 - 8:37am

Currently, BM is not allowed to see her kids via BF. She had lost custodianship almost 2 years ago due to drug use. So we have SKids 24/7. She was on a court program and was up to 3 unsupervised over nights a week when she decided to quit. She spent 5 days in jail. She then thought that she would just keep seeing the kids. Well, that is NOT how it went.

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