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Update to MIL is a piece of shit

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Well, the gift card is back with us now, came in DH's late birthday card with a note "You can use this more than me", lovely, just lovely. It's been sitting on the kitchen counter all weekend. DH sent MIL a very generic $2 birthday card for her birthday and called her, very awkward conversation, he told her that he's working two jobs and she asked what he is going to do with all that extra money (umm pay back credit for the years of having custody of two kids with no child support from bm). I so wish he would just open up and say what needs to be said.

MIL is a piece of shit

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My mother in law is a piece of shit. She has always sided with the SK's even though she only sees them once or twice a year, and only if/when we took them to her, she has never visited us even though we are a 20 minute drive from her home. Her birth son, my DH, has tried to kindly tell her to stay out of it and to allow him to raise his kids the way he sees fit but her and her husband (my DH's stepdad) just won't stop. They have even become very nasty in phone calls, shockingly nasty.

Oh hell no (long lost SS16)

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I think i'm going to be sick. A little backstory, I have a SS16 who now lives with his mom. When I met my DH over 5 years ago this SS lived with us. We were close (SS & I) for the first year he was around 11 at the time, and we would go swimming, boating, bike riding, etc. Once DH and I got married, and SS turn around 13, things went downhill fast. SS is manipulative and sneaky and would defy any and all rules. I tried to help with keeping track of school work, etc. I guess you could say I put my heart into this boy. He turned on us both, and ran away during a very bad storm.

Here comes Father's Day again

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But I know both of his kids will ignore him as usual this year so I've reserved a nice 4 day weekend at the beach. We leave Friday morning and return Monday night. I'm sure he'll get his usual short "happy fathers day" text but I'm sure the pain will be lessened with a nice drink in his hand laying on the beach. He has to be hurt deep down that we have not seen nor heard from either kid since Christmas. His son never even thanked us for his birthday gift and we had to ask his sister if he even got it (mailed).

a bit O/T yet not, my own screwed up family

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I have a brother to another mother (B1), a brother to another father (B2) and one brother (B3) to both my mother and father. B1 and I didn't really get to know each other growing up, his mother left my father when he was a baby, but I had such high hopes that as an adult, me and B1 would get to have a close relationship. Unfortunately that isn't the case. B1 absolutely hates B3, but says he considers B2 to be his "brother" (they are no relation whatsoever).

Yet another disappointment - during a very bad time

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My best friend in the world is dying, cancer has eaten her body and she has been sent home under hospice care with about 2 weeks left on this earth. My stepdaughter offered to come over and make dinner last night since I was gone all day to be with my friend. I offered to make a dessert, which I did on Friday night. Last night at around 4:00 p.m., my stepdaughter texted DH that she couldn't make it and we would have to reschedule but "don't eat the pie that Evil made"....I am running on sheer nerves at this point but that was the last straw. My insides started boiling.

SD19 is about to learn about real life

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SD19 moved in with her BF's family a few months ago because DH and I asked her for rent money after she quit college and had planned to just work part time and lay around and do nothing. Well, the shine must be wearing off...because allegedly she is looking for an apartment. She posted on a public wall on FB that she is looking at a 3-bedroom house for $1,000 a month. DH and I have been having a good laugh for days now.

Well, now I know why SK's never wanted to do chores

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Blech, DH's ex wife (mother of his two kids) is such a slob, I think I finally understand why SK's could never be bothered to help with housework. The one time I went with DH to pick the kids up for visitation I was afraid to walk into her home it was that gross. But she recently moved into a new home and you would think that would be better but I just saw a video that SD19 put up on Vine and SO DISGUSTING...there is a bag of garbage in the middle of the floor and every single table has a thick coating of dust. Sure explains a lot about the kids views on cleaning the house up. YUK!

We beat SD

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On submitting our taxes Smile

SD19 moved out a few months ago and we had a feeling she was going to attempt to claim herself but we beat her to the punch. We have an amazing accountant who knew that we were under the wire to get ours filed first and she just brought me all the paperwork today and filed it all electronically. AND we did manage to get the college forms we needed so we got the full college deduction as well. YAHOO! Finally score one for us

Somewhat O/T - Child Abuse

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I have two beautiful nieces, 9 and 3. I see them about once a month, however, my mother lives very close by and sees them often and they stay the night with her a lot as well as their grandpa (mom and stepdad are divorced). I am constantly getting emails and texts from Mom about the treatment of the girls to the point that it interrupts my work day, life and gives me many sleepless nights. My mom was abused growing up and I was to a degree until my mom got older and realized the wrong in her ways so I don't think we can really define abuse objectively.

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