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Big win with SS, epic fail with BM

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This weekend we went away to the country with the in-laws and SS4. I was very worried about how the weekend would go, given that SS4 has been a little monster for the last month. Our only vague hope was that SS would behave better in front of in laws. Miraculously he did! No more of the sulks, endless tantrums, and deliberate bad-behaviour of the past several visits. Instead we got the cuddly, happy, bouncy, generally well-behaved little boy that I used to know! I have no idea what changed in his little brain, but I really hope this lasts.

Issues with BM: temper tantrums and no boundaries

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So I’m new here. And I am so so so glad that I am not alone in this! I’ve just gotten engaged to a truly lovely man with a less-than-lovely X and son. To be clear I don’t really blame SS4 for any of this, even though he is acting like a little monster lately. I think he is acting out BM’s ‘issues’ when he stays with us every other weekend.