Hate living with SS
SS14 just started high school today. Of course everyone has to wake up becuse now he's up. (he's loud) I am at the point where my patience is non existant, and I really hate living like this in my own home.
Everything needs to be spelled out because little sh*t enjoys finding loopholes. (But yeah, he has the balls to show the attitude being the offender)
Absolute zero problem solving skills. Anything happens he just sits there waiting for resecue, even if he's the one causing the issue. However he likes to think himself as the "big brother" and order around DD, even when in reality DD has been the one to help him deal with so many things.
Doesn't put in effort in anything. He lives in a separate reality, in his mind "studying" means "going through 3 subjects in 1.5 hours" and now he needs 3 hours of "break." Boy still has full confidence that he's getting into college no problem despite being a C/D student. It's also funny any effort he puts in he said he did it for us (!). I'm totally fine with him not going into college, but don't say you are studying for me. (I have enough degrees that I totally don't need him to go to the college for me. if anything, i wish he can leave this household for me)
Lies, lies, and more lies. Little sh*t lies about everything. Boy has to be right all the time, cannot every be wrong. He doesn't admit when he doesn't know things, or if he does anything wrong (because, how can he be wrong?), and he makes up stories to blame everyone but himself. In his logi if he didn't "intend" to do something then he definitely didn't "do" it. (for example, if he accidentally break sh*t, because it's not intended, it is not him who did it.) He being the dishonest one all the time but of course also has the balls to blame us not trusting him lol.
Eavesdropping. Gosh. I hate this. So freaking much.
I don't even want to add his mansplaining here. This is just hilarious.
I'm so angry that I have live with this person. I hate that we always have to find the alternative explantion of his shitty behavior (aka, he's autistic). I don't freaking believe people can't change, I just don't see him doing anything to help himself or anyone, yet keeps expecting everyone to drop everything to help him all the time.
DH and I are equaly tired of deal with him. I 100% envy BM doesn't even need to see his sorry face. I hate how spiteful I have become. I hate feeling so fake putting up a pretty family picture because almost no one outside of the family can take the truth that he's such a PITA to live with. I hate that I'm going to say sorry becuase I truly still feel feel horrible saying crap about a 14 years old.
I am so angry.