My husband has  3 adult children and we have problems with all of them. The  middle  daughter seemed to be the most sensible one, so I thought. Long story but she recently needed our help but our schedules didn't chive. She then called her dad to complain but he put her in her place. All good, now today my daughter who had contact with her brought up that we didn't help the SD. Apparently she made up this elaborate story about how we weren't there for her, lied about most of it and made herself look like the victim and us like terrible people. My husband and I are at our wits end.