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Submitted by DreamingBig on Sat, 09/02/2017 - 1:10pm

So DH and I have talked a lot and he has fully apologized for the times he has disrespected me in front of the SDs. We have agreed that after my return to New Zealand I won't be living with them right away. And that before I move back in he will make it very clear to all three of them that we are a couple, that it is OUR house, and that that means it is as much my house as his and we have the same authority in the house.

A Question of Power...

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Submitted by DreamingBig on Mon, 08/28/2017 - 5:40pm

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Hi,
So this is my first post.
I've been through the wringer as many on here have and I have a question for you all about power.

So a little background first.
I met my partner on a visit to New Zealand and we got together so I stayed. Due to immigration requirements, we had to live together or I had to leave. So we lived together. At the time, he had three daughters SD12, SD14 and SD16 who were with us for 3 weekends a month. Supposedly.