I am new to this blogging thing... I have for years struggled with one step child in particular. I am a good person, but he makes me feel like the worst person in the world, indirectly of course, it's my own inner conflict and how I should feel vs how I actually feel! I don't know how to explain it... But here goes nothing... My step son is currently 25 years old, I became is step mother when he was 10! He has always been a rude, disrespectful person, even as a child. He is so very selfish in nature.