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The eclipse trip didn't go as I expected

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We got there Saturday afternoon and checked into the hotel at 3. His kids claimed one room and ds and I went to the other. We were on different floors and on the other side of the hotel from each other. After ds and I dropped all our stuff off and went to their room they were already in their bathing suits to go swim. I had wanted to walk around Helen for a while since I heard how breath taking the Alpine village is. I told SO I'd like it if we could go walk around and he said he already told the kids they could swim.

He said yes!!

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I asked So last night and he loves the idea of going to see the eclipse. I got 2 rooms hoping him and I could share and the kids could share the other but he doesn't want to put us in his kids faces. I understand it so it will be ds and I in one room and him and his children in the other. We are leaving Sunday morning unless there is a Saturday cancellation. I'm calling every few hours to check. I would love a full weekend of us instead of just a night but I'll be happy with either.

The eclipse

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I was thinking of inviting dh and his kids to see the eclipse with me. I booked 2 hotel rooms in a totality area and he was talking about wanting to take the kids. I already took Monday off and planned the route. I'm going to ask him tonight. We are going camping over Labor day weekend so 2 trips might be to much. I'm trying to keep that in mind if he says no. I'm going to see it either way but it would be nice if my soul mate was with me.

He is making baby steps

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My moms birthday was this weekend and we had a family bbq. All of my siblings and their families came. They have an incredible backyard with a huge deck, swimming pool and hot tub. I allowed Tom's kids to bring some friends with them so that they don't get bored which turned out great for the most part, they kept busy and were okay behaved. They didn't listen so much about the running and jumping in the pool area. When I fussed at them they said okay and stopped but then did it some more so I had to find Tom and have him handle it.

Am I going to get hurt?

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Hi, I've been reading for a few weeks and I need advice. I'll start with my introduction. I am 36 with a 12 yr old boy whose dad isn't in the picture. I've been dating Tom for 7 months and I am madly in love with him. Tom is widowed with 3 teenagers, 16 yr old boy, 14 yr old boy and 13 yr old girl. His kids are well behaved, ab honor roll students and they have a great relationship with their dad. I've never had a problem with them.

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