So BM has been making appointment after appointment for skids. I understand kids need dentist/doctor appointments but I think being rational about making them should be a priority especially if you don't have a job (BM doesn't work). She texts and says all three skids have dentist appointments. The dentist I have decided to take them to only accepts payment up front even WITH insurance. DH has amazing insurance for skids. BUT because skids NEVER brush their teeth......(seriously I have to beg when they are with us)they are full of cavities.

BM text DH and told him she is getting random texts from people in our town telling her I have had two infidelities. And she employed DH to ask me about two men's names and to do it in front of my daughter so he could see the look on her face. I seriously WTF. I'm so spent on her bullahit. DH texted her back and asked her about last March when she called him asking him to find her a school closer to here cuz her BF cheated on her. Her reply was yes my BF had an inappropriate relationship but he did not cheat. Seriously is there a difference? And furthermore leave us the heck alone!

We pulled DH credit from Equifax because he is now having to file bankruptcy. The mortgage company they had their house through has served us with papers. The house SHE got in the divorce. The house SHE left when she couldn't pay the mortgage payment on the house SHE took out a SECOND mortgage on. Ugh............ ok so back to the credit report. I am looking on it. And wouldn't you know it she has been using a Les Schwab account since 1996 that is DH!!!!!!!! He closed that account in 2009 and reopened one in just his name because he found out she and her BF were charging on his account.

Sometimes I feel like I have no say in anythin in my life. Skids are coming this weekend. They are bringing friends. Sometimes I think I atleast should be asked. Hey do you think we can afford to feed 4 kids this weekend. But I guess non of that really matters. Skids want to go to church with BM's mom and DH wants skids to see his family. So he is packing up and going to stay with his mom this weekend. Yes of course he asked me to go but seriously I don't want to go to his mothers for the entire weekend. And honestly I am irritated that he would consider doing that.