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In Laws are driving me freaking NUTS right now.
Okay, so I'm up here in the hospital with my husband. Of course I don't want to leave his side because I'm freaking worried sick about him and want to be here every second of the day. Well......his mom and dad also think they need to be here every second of the day. And I'm not kidding, they never leave. This is the first time I've been in this room alone with my husband in three freaking days.
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I'm sitting here in the hospital with my DH.
He has pancreitis. Can you believe it? We've been here since 2am on Wednesday morning and it looks like we'll be here until Monday. I can't believe that he has this, he doesn't touch alcohol EVER. He is just not a drinker at all. They are saying they think he had a gaulstone and that caused it. Though, theres no proof of the gaulstone any longer but they do believe that's the cause.
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OT~Sinus Infection~I really need your help ladies.
Here's the story. I've had a cold for about a month. About two weeks ago I got a headache from hell, it hurt worse than anything I've ever felt. I went to the ER it hurt so bad. They did a cat scan, turns out I had a severe case of sinuitus. DH saw my pictures from the scan and said it was insane looking. So they gave me a shot to help the pain, it did help, then they perscibed me Vicitan for the pain, and Septra for the infection. A week later I was back in the ER due to another headache so bad I couldn't take it, the Vicitan didn't touch the pain.
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It's been a whole year!
That I've been a member of step talk. I love having this site as a resource.......I think I'm a different person than I was a year ago. So much has changed, alot of it due to the advice I've gotten here. Alot of it due to having somewhere to fuss other than at my husband's ear.
Thanks Dawn and Admin for creating a site like this one.
I've been through alot on here........ruthless attacks, people making fun of my dog being stolen, snarky comments, etc. But, without the help from the people here with the huge hearts I don't think my waters would be so calm.
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SD is leveling out......BS is getting stupid.
For many years now it's been SD 15 that was the backtalker, the no helper, the mouth of the south, etc.
Years I tell ya.
My BS knows when to shut his trap, he knows when he's pushed me to the point of no return. SD has never known any boundaries............
Until latley.
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In regard to Barbie's most recent blog......what is the WORST thing you have ever done to/with your bio kids?
Since Barbie is feeling like a big ol meanie for, well for being a mom..........let's all tell her some stories. What's the worst thing you've ever done to your bio kids?
I have a story. It's very sad......embarassing.....I still can't believe I did it.
Who is concerned with YOUR feelings.
I posted earlier about husbands and the grief they go through.
Now tell me, who is in your corner? No matter what.....thick and thin......the first person you call when there is a bad day, a problem, just to fuss.
Mine is my husband.
I can tell him anything. I can bitch about my kids, our kids, his kids, the BM, anything in the world. He doesn't care. I can tell him some of the darkest feelings I have about things and he doesn't judge me. He's always there, in my corner, and whenever I need him he comes to my side.
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Who is actually concerned with your DH's feelings?
I ask this because another blog got me to thinking about it.
So many times I read on here that BM's are telling their x's how much they still love them, how they want their family back etc.
Then I read how awful Skids treat their fathers.
It makes me wonder.......and it looks like the DH is getting the short end of the stick here.
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How many of you are also the Mother of his child, the Golden Uterus?
I am. I'm the mother of my husbands baby.......our baby girl together is the family "baby".
So every time I hear the excuse of, she's the mother of his child, yep.......so am I sister!
I like that she no longer has any status with him that I don't have. What about you guys?
I know this has been done and asked alot, BUT, do your Skids call you mom?
If my SD called me mom my eyes would bugg out of my head, hit the floor, roll around, catch on fire, and then explode. Once I got beyond that I would seriously have a issue with it. I see her EOW and sometimes through the week. I'm not her mom. I am a parent to her.....but I think mom and dad titles should be reserved for the mom and dad.
Now, just so you know, I know many of you have had your skids since birth pratically and that you've raised them.....okay, I can see that and understand that you aren't just being called mom, you are mom!