1st note on this site... I have been married for 5 years and I love and respect my husband. 

He has 4 daughters, 2 grown and married, 1 in College and 1 graduating HS this year. I have 2 HS aged kids, boy and girl. My husband and I with the 4 youngest have been a family for 5 years, They all live (d) with us full time. My kids father has limited visits and his exwife has little to no relationship with her daughters due to her own actions. 3 of the 4 girls do not have ANY relationship with her as their choice.