My fvpo was made permanent for a yr. My kids are good, I am doing good. My ex is in total melt down. She is living with a friend and posting all over social media how i am a bastard and an a$$hole. She is saying horrible things about my kids and how they destroyed her life. She was arrested for breaking into my house and vandalizing it. She didn't do much damage before the police got there but since i have the fvpo she was arrested for violating that also. That cost her her job so now she is unemployed.

My ex and I sat down to mediation and redid our child support agreement in writing. It's basically what I was paying before. My attorney looked over the numbers and recommended this over court and after it was done, he told me I saved money. At least that part is settled. My wife is pissed but what are you going to do? I wasn't going to go aganist my lawyer, pay for him to represent me and then lose anyway. Then my wife would be mad at the court fees i paid.

I have a mens advice forum I post on just like here to get advice from others experiencing what I am. The advice there is so different from men and woman. Here I get slammed, called names and told to divorce my wife (from most, I do appreciate those that give actual advice, I am listening to you) while there I am told to put my kids first by funding their life style like I have been, protect my finances and love my wife while not letting her take advantage of me. It's amazing how different the advice is.

My wife and I had a massive blow out Wednesday night. My kids called their mom to come get them and they left because of our fighting. My wife said she is going to divorce me and take me for half of everything I have and she wants alimony. I already talked to my brothers law firm and they advised me not to leave the house and close out all joint accounts which I did. I didnt think she could get madder then she was but she is. I moved into my sons room for now and if she doesn't file for divorce next week then I will. She said many hurtful things I don't think I can look past.