I pretty much hate my stepkids now. They behaved like a$$holes at dh's dads funeral and they made it known to everyone how upset they were and that my son was not. My son barely knew the man and he acted like I raised him to, with class. No he didn't blubber around like they did saying it isn't fair and he was to young. The man was 79 years old and had cancer. We knew this was coming. Sigh, whatever. The worst part is Fil left his fortune to my stepkids and his other children. My stepkids will be rich. Not richy rich rich but if they are smart they wouldn't have to work.

Tomorrow morning ds and I take our trip! We were supposed to do 2 days at universal and then 3 days at disney on property with the meal plan but dh surprised me with $1000 for our trip so we are going to do 2 days at Universal and 5 days at disney on property. We are so excited. Everything is packed we just have to wait till go time!!

I can't believe I posted about this yesterday and then the second adjustor calls last night. He said it was water damaged and they are totalling my car!!! I have the extra insurance through the dealership to cover the differance on what I owe and what the insurance will pay. They are also covering what I paid to have it towed and my rental car insurance which has been a huge drain on my finances!! I am back baby!! I learned my lesson on expensive cars. My coworker and I have been looking all morning and i found a used one with a great price.

Dh took his kids to Disney/Universal and "surprise" spent most of the money in our savings account. Yep. He said since it was him who put the money in, he could spend it how he wished. Fine.That money was supposed to be for a family vacation. I guess bs and I aren't family. I told dh I wanted to separate finances and he said okay. We sat down and divided the bills. Don't worry I am only paying mine and bs fair share. Of coarse dh still has a boatload of money and I will have next to nothing but I am paying our way and that is what counts.