Sick child? Sick BM!
So, the situation is this ... when BF and I met I was employed, he was in chemo and separated but living under the same roof at BM. Chemo ended, she moved out and to the opposite side of town, I moved in (when I was in town, as I traveled a LOT for work) we got my house ready to be moved back into (they were loosing their house in a foreclosure/bankruptcy), we moved into my house and I got laid off. Their divorce is still in process. We share custody of the boys 50/50, we have them Monday and Tuesday nights and every other Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
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The Weekend is Near--Boo for me!
I used to love the weekends. Time to rest and relax, clean my house, cook (I love to cook--very therapuetic), hang out with the old man. At this point in my life...the weekends suck. I asked to work Saturdays (even though I don't have to). Might as well make money...nothing else to do.
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A beautiful moment.
Yesterday BF had SD1. It was nap time and like he often will he let me rock her to sleep, well after he tried the just laying her in bed method, which did not work. But anyway, I placed her in her bed and BF and I napped as well. He let me sleep on the bed and he took the floor, he lives with his parents and his mom has a SERIOUS problem with us laying in bed together. After sometime of SD1 napping she woke up, I was closest to the crib so I picked her up and held her for a moment. She whimpered and I asked her if she wanted daddy. She shook her head no and placed it on my shoulder.
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Candy is Crack :)
Hubby and I mailed a Valentine's Day package to SD this week. It should be delivered to her today, according to the delivery confirmation we requested. I have to admit I get a slightly, not so guilty pleasure, out of sending SD candy. I mean, I am aware that candy is pretty much crack for kids and since SD tends to lean more towards the super hyper active side of the spectrum, she should provide BM with LOTS to do when she opens her present. HA HA HA Take that BM!
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BM is back to not letting DH speak to SS during the week, The middle boy even hung up on him
when DH called the house phone last night.
DH: Hello...XXXXX...
Middle Boy: "Yeah"
DH Can I speak to XXXXX please
*fumble of the phone* *dh hears mom in the backround*
*phone hangs up*
DH calls back and no one answers-
He texts BM and trys to call her cell, she refuses
to have SS call DH..
BM did this same thing around this exact time of year
last year. As a matter of fact it was around Feb 6th
when she called the police on him for no reason when
he came to pick SS up for the weekend, as he always has..
Learning Curve
I realized that while I need to have the community of other step-parents, to help me realize that I am not crazy and I am not the only one going through this, that I tend to shy away from posting on here because I feel like everything comes across as negative. I need a place to vent so that I can get rid of some of the negativity that I'm feeling, not wallow in it. So that I can sort out my feelings and get ideas on being more, staying true to me.
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Caught by Rusty...............BWAWHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Yesterday, BM calls about mid-morning to say that her father will pick up the skids around 3 because she is at work and because our driveway was still impassable because of snow. The skids were off for a snow day and Wednesday is BM's day. The skids did not tell us that BM was at work, all they said was that Papaw was coming to get them at 3.
who makes the rules? is this your reality?
My BF and I talked a lot yesterday. I feel like a relationship should be adult focused and not child focused...in other words I feel our relationship should be the primary relationship that supports the family, that dictates what goes on, that it should be the focus, but if I was hearing him correctly, he said he was working toward that but didn't think he could give that to me. I also told him that I wanted us to make the rules together, for us to decide together what is best for the people who live under our roof. They have 50/50 custody.
Today
Go ahead, take all of our money, drag us through court...I don't care anymore.
Everyone knows that all you think about is yourself. I am glad that your friends support you taking my DH to the cleaners even though you are the one that ruined the marriage by cheating (many times).
I will work 5 times as hard to take care of my family instead of spongeing off of everyone else to take care of my family!
TODAY IS A NEW DAY AND YOU ARE A NON-ISSUE TODAY!
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Child support vent
Sigh. BM gets a tax break. BM gets money every month tax free...all for getting knocked up. DAMN.
Paid about 60k so far. Only 45k more to go until it's over with. That doesn't include medical and dental coverage for the kid.
SIGH, I WISH we could put that much money away for OUR own kids. BM fabricated her hand written pay stubs (her and her family own their own business).
I know, thinking "the grass is greener on the other side." She just gets it so easy.
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