Okay, so as much as I love and care about my skids, I, more than anyone in their lives, see their problems and challenges more clearly than H and BM, because I have an outsiders perspective, but at the same time, I am not an outsider because they are my kids too and I am highly involved and intertwined with their lives.

Drinking a beer and eating donuts... After that horrible nonsense with the mediator and I grilled FDH completely (BBQ on both sides) about BM. He's wearing the vest I bought him at the resale shop with tag still on it and says can I throw you a birthday party? So, ABBY, whoever you are, we're all keepers and so are they.

Ok so FDH is at work and I'm cleaning.. So I need to share this with someone so you guys are the lucky winners

So I keep smelling something gross in the kitchen and I can't figure out what it is. I've smelled it for a few days now and I'm going nuts. Well on of my friends would say it's cuz I'm super nose, she says I can smell a mouses fart a mile away.. lol

This is good and bad. She will not cause trouble for a while because she's happy and distracted. When he dumps her like her last 3 or 4 did she is going to start shit with H again because she'll be hurt and angry and won't have a kid to hold over this guy's head to control him...so she will do it to H just to feel like her wants matter to someone.

I also have FIDS! Feathered Kids!
Just like SKIDS, they have no discipline, want to eat junk food and make a lot of noise! They feel free to eat off of my plate as well!

Just a funny to lighten the mood!

(I do have FIDS!)

Hi I am a step mum to 3 kids and a biological mum to 2 sons. My hubby has 3 kids to a previous relationship, I have a 13 year old son to previous marriage, and hubby and I have 1 kid together. ALL the kids live with us. Hubby's eldest daughter (12) has Adjustment Disorder and is an angry, temper tantrum throwing, nasty little cow. The second daughter is 11 and has Conduct Disorder, constantly steals (money from us, her mum and school) lies, manipulates, and is generally not a nice little person. Hubby's younger son (8) wets his bed every night and wets sometimes during the day.

This makes me laugh, but it's really not that funny.

I am at a loss. I don't know what to do anymore. Everyone always told me that me and fiance were rushing into things by getting engaged and what not. Now I believe them. It wasn't until recently when I've began to pick up on things he does which I have never noticed before. (we have been together for 2years)

Every second thursday that horrible bitch gets paid, it makes me sick to my stomach. She gets $200 every second week i absolutely hate it because the useless bitch lives with her parents and they do everything for the kids anyway, they pay for everything. It just makes me furious that she feels that she deserves payment. Then she sends the kids to us asking DH to pay for stuff. We have the kids a lot and they cost us a fortune too. Where is my Child support for driving them around?? feeding them??

OK - FDH and BM are trying to work out the yearly planner/calander for next year.. so this will include which week the kids stay during the holidays and which holidays they are going to plan for etc.

so of course BM gots all the good weeks last year and we get all the left over ones. But this year FDH has finally put his foot down and said NO we should actually we should take turns each year as it is only fair.