My bf has never gotten around to divorcing or getting a custody order and visitation in place for his son(13.5). The boy has lived with his father continuously since last fall, after a brief stint where BM promised him everything he ever wanted and swept him away (two homes, two schools and two states) for a month or two and then dumped him back here one night in a fit of screaming and fighting. He'd been with us more than her for the year leading up to that. She's a sucubus and a bully.

FDH worked late both Monday and Tuesday nights this week. I picked up both skids and our baby and did everything both nights, and he got home after they were in bed and then played Call of Duty until midnight both nights. So last night I mentioned that it'd be nice if I could have a little "break" from the kids to get some cleaning and maybe a few little wedding projects done. He got pissy and said that he's been at work, it's not like he's gotten a break. He doesn't go to work until 1pm when he works late!! How is from 8am-1pm without kids NOT a break????

Just a quick poll how many of the people on here keep tracks of there significant others ex's on facebook? There was some comments about it in another blog and I was just curious how many of us do it, and what peoples opinions were right or wrong?

BM won't contribute to anything besides what ss6 sees her contribute to. She won't carry medical insurance because she doesn't have a paying job. She complains when we pay medical bills under our name in full to prevent her from messing our credit up. She will only pay hospital yet she can't even pay the bills that are in her name. Question is shall we just pay and not send bill to stop any drama from coming our way or stick it to her since she hasn't been in the picutre for last 4 yrs and causes grief once I was in the picture?

So, SS turned 18 a month & 2 days ago. DH has talked to him a number of times about the importance of school & going to college. SS has talked to DH trying to figure out what his options would be available to finance a college eduacation once his Senior year (this year) was over. He's talked about joining the military. We've been trying desparately to get information on DH's family history, as it was suggested to us where if you are 10% American Indian you can get your education paid for.

I am in a situation where i am confused and upset. My partner of nearly 3 years who i have been living with for 2 years and i are having massive issues.

I wonder about him and his ex who have not yet got divorced. They have gone through the settlement process. She has the kids 65% of the time and us for 35%. She has a partner that she left her husband for and they live together.

Well I guess she is gonna give me no choice, my bf ex called the narcotics, told them there was alot of drug activity going on. So yesterday the task force got the grand tour of our 3 bedroom trailer. No drugs of course but then her and her apparently blind bf rode up and down our street the next day.

Those were the only words spoken between myself and SS21 today. And they were spoken by him to me. He's still pouting I suppose after last nights fiasco. He wanted to go fishing. I was perfectly fine with that. The part I wasn't perfectly fine with was him toting the bottle of vodka out of the house. I nicely made my point. It's illegal to drink and drive, illegal to drink in a state park, DANGEROUS, among other things. He politely stuck it in his bag and headed out the door. After he got home. I checked the bottle. He hadn't even opened it.

I posted a comment on another blog. I disagreed with the op,there were others that posted disgreement as well but i was the first.i see new comments and take a look op deleted all other comments that disagreed except mine! then posted a response. I'm not here for a battle. Why would she do that. I thought about sending a pm, to say if you don't want different opinions please delete mine as well but, then i kinda got upset as to the reason why. Maybe i'm just reading to much into it.

We started out communication with BM regarding custody of SD15.

BM finally did something smart - she requested that it be email-only. This allows her to step away and not show her ass with the first thing out of her mouth, and to have it on record that she is "reasonable".

We laid out our VERY GENEROUS proposal (5 months temp tryout, her state keeps jurisdiction, we'd send SD15 to therapy and a religious private school and SHE KEEPS GETTING CS) and she said no with all sorts of bullshit reasons.